Just this morning I got a guy who was cross-dressing in his wives’ clothes. Why is it you choose your girl’s clothes over buying your own?
Cross-Dressing and The Saga
Lots of callers call in and have been wearing their girl’s clothes. So why don’t they buy their own? Storage and hiding, of course. A while back, I had a cross-dresser who often bought his things, then stored his stuff in a locker room in a town in California. In fact, the storage place catered to cross dressers and even had a built-in hair salon for the cross dressers who were trying to pass as realistically as women as possible. They had no place to store all their kinky sex toys, feminine clothing among other things.
How to Store Feminine Clothes
Try to find a cedar chest to store all your feminine clothes and lock it up and put it in the garage, in the attic or in the basement with all your other valuables. I know lots of husband and boyfriends who hide their stash in the house they share. It’s imperative that if you have to hide your cross-dressing side from your wife, then find a good safe place. You can always rent a storage facility in town to dress and hide away certain belongings.
Do Not Purge!
Whatever you do, don’t purge your feminine clothing! Do you know why? You will end up caving in a few weeks, months or whatever timeline and you’ll get the urge to crossdress again. Then, you’ll have to buy all new clothes again. If you do this once a year, you have dented your wardrobe significantly, and your wallet. It’s best to keep. It’s best to keep them hidden, that way, even when you do not want to dress or be part of it – you know you can hide it from your sight until you are ready again. (Don’t kid yourself, you know you will be).
Yes mistress is so right I have done it a couple of times and always end up buying mor panties and bras !!
It is an intensely private and often lonely experience for men who never told anyone about their cross-dressing secret. The fact is that cross-dressers continue to live their lives in secrecy at home and not in public. And of course, purging doesn’t work the desire to cross-dress never goes away. In my opinion, you just have to be your true authentic self.
So true Mistress Angelica. Purging all of one’s lingerie doesn’t make sense. But if one has only limited storage space, purging some of the old and purchasing some new fashion is the way to go! Recently I’ve been into retro bras, panties, garter belts, and fully fashioned stockings. I’ve even bought a beautiful custom Sissy Maid dress and a petticoat to go with the retro lingerie. And to dress in all of these new things… Very exciting indeed!
I agree Mistress Angelica. Purging is not the answer – but replacing with some newer fashion occasionally works well and conserves that secret space. Besides, trying on new lingerie for the first time is very exciting especially when it’s for your Mistress!
I agree about purging. Don’t! I love crossdressing and I’ve added more women’s clothes as they look/fit and feel better on me. I used to worry what others think but now I don’t care what they think. Especially co workers all they care about is work & their job. I don’t not won’t hang out with them. I do keep my clothes/lingerie hidden when my family comes over. They to care about their work/football which I can take it or leave it. I’ve bought 2 new pair of women’s mules that I can’t wait to wear next week along with women slacks. I’m hoping one/both girlfriends notice as I’ll tell them that I like the women’s boots/mules better then guy shoes/same with the slacks and women’s lotions/perfumes. Both said they want to know more about me and who I am and this will be perfect time in hoping they will make me their cream puff in female lead relationship.