It’s a long weekend and I wanted to update everyone on what’s going on. My boyfriend is in chastity. We started on Friday night and as I speak – he’s begging to be let out. Should I?

I’m saying no. LOL

Chastity and Teasing

When I put my guy in chastity – I usually do it for days on end until he has to go back to work so weekends, vacations are always a time for chastity play and I love it! The reason I love it is because this is a time we do intensive body worship: massages and all the other dirty stuff that happens in between. I’ll leave that to your imagination for now.

What Happens with the Key?

The key goes around a little gold anklet I have and I have joked that if it somehow gets lost – oh well. LOL. We’d have to really try other means of getting it off but it’s the risk he loves to take. So the anklet and the key are worn by me 24 hours a day until he is out and unlocked. What I accomplish during this time is so much: lots of housework, body worship and confession time. I make him confess to me what he thinks about and what he has done behind my back.

He once confessed to me he looked at women on instagram and stroked to them. I tacked on another week of chastity for that confession.  He knows he was bad.

I Love Blue Balls

Blue balls make my heart sing. I love to have a man on his toes. Whenever I let my guy cum whenever he wants – which was earlier in the relationship – he wasn’t as attentive. In fact, downright lazy. In order to get a hold of this – I started to force him into chastity and wow – did his tune ever change. Things got done and his focus was now on ME instead of his cock. Men have an obsession with their cocks I have learned over time and the best way to get a man’s attention is to focus on the cock. This is always a sure fire way to get his attention and KEEP his attention. And if he’s locked – he can’t stroke to other women….

The Release

I have kept him chastity for an extended period of time- 3 months to be exact – and this is when he was really screwing up A LOT. Every little infraction got him more days tacked on and he would plead, argue, get a little mean even – then 3 more days tacked on and all I would do is smile. Until he just broke down and he submitted to me.

A wild horse is not tamed over night – it definitely takes time. He took more time than normal because he had gone his whole life doing what he wanted. He didn’t come to be 100% submissive – this was a work in progress over the course of a few years and I’ve seen him go from a wild man to a tamed teddy bear.

He gets release when he’s earned that and when I say every man should be held to the same standard, I mean EVERY MAN should be held to the same standard with no exceptions. This world would be so much better if more men were in chastity. Oh how I would love to lock some politicians and other men in authority in chastity.

Peace in chastity? It’s a fantasy of mine.

And I think it’s time we all really put some thought into it.

If you wear chastity – who has locked you up? For how long? And what do you get out of it?