Phone sex and communication – they REALLY do go together! Unlike the actual physical encounter you would have with a Mistress when you are on the phone, you have to talk.
Why It’s So Hard to Communicate on Phone Sex
Things can get very awkward quickly if no one can relax! So take a deep breath, maybe a drink if you have to before you call. Have your thoughts somewhat organized. If you are new to phone sex and domination, be sure to say you are. That way, we can discuss what it is you’d love your phone call to be about. If you are not a natural communicator and are quiet, it will be a little more difficult for us Mistresses to extract out of you what you are looking for. But, that’s okay, just relax and let it all come out of your mind as it should.
How to Start Your Call
It’s much easier on us Mistresses if you ask us how we are, and a little chit-chat instead of saying: “I’m laying down and I’m hard.” This gives us nothing to work with as a Mistress… more than likely; I might just laugh at you if that’s how you start out a conversation. We love details! So if after the nice little introduction, and tell us your first name (even if it is a fake name, that’s okay), then, you are welcome to start delving into why you called in the first place. Remember, it’s okay to be nervous. It’s not okay for us to try to read your mind! Telling us you like to cross dress or that you want to suck cock seems very daunting to say out loud, but believe me, it’s therapy!
Ask Questions
Asking questions during a phone sex call should be going both ways. Questions are a way to get inside one another’s heads and figure out what the goals should be. This is important! Don’t be afraid to ask questions and if either party is not comfortable answering a super personal question, it’s okay to say you don’t feel comfortable. Any other questions before the call? Be sure to email us! You can reach me at angelica@enchantrixempire.com
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